Thinking About Proposing? Here’s How To Stand Out*

Marriage proposals can be a tricky thing; with the volume of ideas that you can choose from planning it out may be difficult. Alongside this you’ll need to make sure that it’s something your partner will love.

After all, you’ll want to get them in the mood to say ‘yes.’ While there are countless marriage proposal ideas to choose from you’ll need to put more effort in than simply picking one. You’ll actually need to plan it out and implement it.

That’s where things could get difficult. Most people don’t know how to propose in a unique and romantic way. You should keep a few things in mind when planning out your marriage proposal.

How To Make Your Marriage Proposal Stand Out

Have A Fake Backstory

You’ll want to make the proposal as surprising as possible. If you’re planning something romantic that involves going somewhere, you might need some form of excuse. That’s especially true if you’re not already celebrating something.

To overcome this, it’s worth coming up with some kind of excuse or fake backstory. While this might involve lying, it’ll be for the greater good. It’s worth keeping this simple and believable to help throw them off the scent.

Make Sure You Get The Right Ring

There are countless unique engagement rings to choose from. The sheer volume could make it difficult to pick one. You’ll need to spend a lot of time thinking this out and comparing different options.

When you’re choosing one, you’ll need to keep your partner’s preferences in mind. Would they want something big and shiny or something small and classy? While diamonds are typically used in engagement rings, your partner might prefer something else.

You’ll also need to make sure that you get the right size ring. If you and your partner haven’t discussed this before, their ring size could be difficult to figure out. You mightn’t want to ask them straight out, as this might give things away.

You could instead borrow some of their jewelry and take it to an expert so that you can find out the right size.

Be Flexible

Things don’t always go as you’d expect. If you have a plan for your proposal, then it mightn’t go exactly that way. It’s worth being flexible with your approach. You might aim to plan exactly at sunset, for instance.

If the moment doesn’t feel right, however, then it might be worth postponing slightly. You could still do so the same night, but simply when the moment feels right. Rushing things to stick to the plan isn’t recommended. Try to go with the flow.

That’ll make the moment feel much more personal and romantic, which is what you’re aiming for.

Wrapping Up

As it’s something you mightn’t have done before, you mightn’t know how to propose. Using each of the above when you’re planning things out will make sure that things go smoothly. There could be other things to keep in mind.

Once your partner is front and foremost in your mind, you shouldn’t have any issues planning things out.

The Happiness Habit with Adbra

Anxiety and overthinking have long been a part of my life, they existed long before any eating disorders took hold and for 15 or so years were controlled largely by a carefully balanced cocktail of medications (with a dash of therapy here and there).
Since the end of the last year I made the decision to come off the majority of medications, knowing we were going to be starting the IVF and being in a much better place generally, I didn’t just want to find pregnancy safe medications, I wanted to use the coping mechanisms I’ve learnt over the years and try to come off as much as possible.
It’s worked, mostly. There was the two weeks where I slept little more than an hour a night (good practice for what is ahead right?), andI am still on an anti-depressant, but everything else is gone and I am surviving.

It’s not always plain sailing though, and recently there have been a few things triggering cycles of overthinking. Thankfully an email arrived from a wonderful company called Adbra at exactly the right time and I’m getting myself right back on track again.

Month of mindfulness jar from Adbra

Adbra are a small company that was founded by Adel and Libby after they faced their own mental health challenges. They decided to use their experiences and research to create toolkits that could help others take control of their mental wellbeing.

As soon as I read this I kind of fell in love with Adel and Libby, they are my kind of people!
They got in touch to introduce their “happiness habits jars” and very kindly sent one out to me, which literally could not have arrived at a better time. There are 7 jars in the range and the one that I was sent was the “mindfulness” themed jar which I have been using religiously ever since.

This little jar has got me back on track so many times, and for £12.50 it’s an absolute bargain. I always used to be so sceptical of this kind of thing, but eventually a couple of years ago decided to stop being stubborn and give it a go and I’ve not looked back!

These jars make a wonderful gift for a friend or family member, or as a self-care investment for yourself. I’m definitely going to look at getting the “self kindness” jar for once baby is here as I think it’s going to be very easy to forget that I need to be a priority too.

What tools do you find help the most when it comes to mental health? I’m a very visually orientated person so this kind of thing is almost certainly guaranteed to be a success over say, a podcast.

Revamp Your Home for Autumn*

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When it comes to cleaning and organising your home you often think about spring being the ideal season to get to work. Of course, spring cleaning is always going to be a thing, but we believe that autumn could be the time for revamping.

In this post, to help inspire you to redesign your home and make it look better than ever we have put together some of our top tips on how to revamp your home for autumn.

Add some autumn colours

Want to bring a touch of autumn to your home? If you do then you can always add in some autumn colours. Cushions, rugs and throws- not only are these all great ways to add colour but they can also add warmth, texture and style too. Something that you will be more than grateful for when you are spending the longer evenings cuddled up at home.

Use it as a chance to declutter

Making over and decorating a room is the ideal time to actually declutter and organise the space too. After all, if you are in a room trying to paint it or moving furniture around, then chances are that you are going to change up the entire space too which means that it might be the ideal time to think about some of the mess.

Also, don’t forget, if you’re likely to make a mess whilst you are decorating, to book a junk collection from a reputable company like www.samedayrubbishremoval.com.au/. They’ll help you to clean up and dispose of your unwanted stuff in a reputable way.

You’ll also need to consider other boring but essential jobs such as prepping the exterior of your house for the colder months and inclement weather. This includes making sure your gutters are clear ahead of winter storms. Again, a reputable company such as Gutter Cleaning Kansas City will ensure the job gets done swiftly and safely.

Create a cosy and intimate feel

Following on from the above, if you are looking at adding warmth to a spot in your home then why not take this one step further and make it a cosy, intimate and inviting place to be? This works really well with a small armchair or reading chair, which will allow you to create a spot that you will want to curl up with a good book and let the world outside pass you by.

Work with lighting

The nights get darker the further into autumn we get, which means that we need to think about our lighting choices at home. Table lamps are great additions during autumn as they bring extra light when you need it most and, best of all, they can also be used to add colour to the room too. You could, if you really like to change things up, invest in a new lamp shade when the autumn comes around, replacing brighter summer colours with more neutral, deeper, autumn shades.

It can be hard work redesigning and making over your home, but we can promise you that it is worth it. There is no better feeling than being able to relax and unwind in your beautifully decorated home. Especially as the weather starts to change and the autumn months really take a hold. Before we know it, we will find ourselves deep in winter and we will need to be able to hide away in our beautifully decorated and made over homes.


How To Keep Your Sanity When Stuck Indoors*

Thankfully, many lockdown rules are being relaxed; This means that gyms are back open, pools can be used, and you can meet up with other people. However, these rules could easily change and there are parts of the country still in full-lockdown due to a spike in cases. You might also be in a situation where you don’t want to go out because you’re either at risk or live with people who have a higher risk of catching Covid-19 and suffering serious consequences.

Consequently, many of you are still stuck inside trying to find things to do. It’s been this way since March, and it’s hard to cling to your sanity for that long. Here are some suggestions that can help you remain positive and keep your mind in one piece when stuck indoors:

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Make your own alcoholic drink from scratch

You have to get creative if you want to survive the year 2020! Pubs are starting to re-open, but you might hate the idea of being in a confined space with loads of others. So, why don’t you bring some of the same fun to your home by brewing your own alcohol? So many beer-brewing kits and gin-making kits exist nowadays for your pleasure. You can stay at home and come up with your own alcoholic creation. It’s a double-whammy in that you have fun making the drink, then have even more fun drinking it! These things take time so it should also keep you occupied for a few days at least. Think about your favourite alcoholic drinks, then go online and see if you can find a brewing kit for them. 

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Play around with your car

If you have a car then you’ve got your very own boredom-freeing machine. You can do so many things to a car when you’re stuck at home if you’re brave enough! On a base level, give it a proper clean from inside to out; it may have been years since you cleaned your car like this and it’s a great little passion project to undertake. Then you can start to think about making some other adjustments – like an alloy refurb on the wheels, a new paint job, some different lights etc. Basically you can turn your life into an episode of Pimp My Ride every single day. You’ll be amazed at how many things you can do to a car, and at how fun this can be with a little help from YouTube!

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Renovate your home

On the topic of pimping things up, why don’t you renovate your home with a bit of DIY? Most people think home renovations are costly and involve lots of construction work. Truthfully, they don’t have to be like this if you don’t want them to. There are so many DIY renovations you can do on your own with a handful of tools. DIY is always a winner when you’re stuck at home, and you get the benefit of improving your living space at the same time.

You see, keeping your sanity is not as difficult as it seems. Essentially you have to keep yourself occupied and find things to do that last for a long time. Even when life gets back to normal, these are great little projects to undertake when you’re bored on a rainy day inside!





How To Revamp Your Wardrobe To Achieve Chic & Sophisticated Style*

With such a large percentage of people staying at home in the most comfortable of all outfits, dressing up and looking glam seem to be a thing of the past. Chic and sophisticated fashion has gone out of the window, to be replaced with pyjamas and sweatpants! However, with the end of lockdown looming now is the time to address your wardrobe and identify any positive changes that can be made to ensure you can feel smart and stylish for your next endeavour! So, if you’re looking for the perfect classy office look or simply want to dress with a little more commitment to sophistication, then read on to uncover some of the best top tips and tricks that you can make the most of today!

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Say No To Patterns 

One of the worst things that you can do when trying to achieve a chic aesthetic is to layer lots of different patterns and colours together, this is far too eye catching and jumbled to even hint at sophistication. Avoid prints altogether where possible, experimenting only with simple stripes or a basic animal print on one small section of your outfit (such as your top) to identify whether these patterns can match with the block colour items in the rest of your wardrobe. 

Accessories Add Value 

The accessories that you wear can transform your outfit completely as soft and delicate clothing is taken to a whole new level with the accompaniment of a gold or silver jewellery set. Earrings, necklaces, bracelets and rings are all great extras to add to your chic style as there are so many statement pieces embellished with glistening diamonds or even more kitsch floral shaped sets too. Even a good pair of designer cat eye glasses can take your outfit to a whole new level, so it’s a good idea to explore a relevant website or two in order to identify what’s truly on the market right now.

Find The Balance 

Though you may wish to dress the part every single day, sometimes it just isn’t possible. Finding the balance between über sophistication and complete casual may seem impossible, but even if this means substituting one item then this can really be of benefit. For example, wearing a sleek women’s suit dress with a statement necklace falling over the collar of your shirt would fit perfectly with a new pair of cute tennis shoes or other similar trainers. This can help you to avoid being overdressed, as well as help to keep control of your budget too! 

Revamping your wardrobe to achieve a chic and sophisticated style has never been so simple when you are able to make the most of the top tips and tricks detailed above! Start off by getting rid of any garish patterned clothing, as this can be too eye catching and make for a jumbled and confusing outfit. Stick with basic block colours, and add extra features by experimenting with accessories such as glasses and jewellery. Make sure that you find the right balance!